


How
to Plan a Wedding on a Budget
From ice sculptures to fancy stretch limos to a wedding dress that costs
more than your mortgage payment -- with all these wedding temptations,
how can you possibly stay on budget and still have the wedding of your
dreams?
Wedding experts offer the following tips to keep your
budget in-check:
Borrow what you can. Know a friend, neighbor or family member who
recently got married? Ask to borrow their cake server, wedding slip,
veil, headpiece, centerpiece items or even wedding dress.
Become centerpiece savvy. Use candles to spice up
centerpieces, such as using votives on top of a mirror with small
accents of flowers or balloons. Have bridesmaids use their bouquets as
reception centerpieces, and your wedding ceremony flowers can pull
double-duty, too. Or pile nicely wrapped favors in a bowl or basket at
the center of each table.
Factor in the season, day and time. Avoid the busy
summer wedding months or the holidays, when prices can be 10 percent
higher. Winter weddings -- January through March -- tend to provide the
best deals. Consider planning your wedding on a day other than Saturday
to save money, too: Fridays evenings and Sunday afternoons are popular
alternatives. Receptions earlier in the day tend to be cheaper than a
dinner buffet or a five-course sit-down dinner, so consider an afternoon
tea, cocktail reception, lunch or brunch.
Shop the bargains. Many Web sites, such as eBay, offer
discounted new and used party favors, ring-bearer pillows, guestbooks,
etc. Attend bridal shows to collect special savings coupons for bargains
on wedding vendors and rentals. Some stores may offer discounts for
multiple purchases -- such as discounts on your bridesmaid dresses, veil
and shoes when you buy your wedding dress there, also.
Look to cheaper alternatives for invitations.
Thermography typeset is less expensive than engraved invitations. Also
be sure to watch the weight of your invitations -- from the size of the
paper to all of your enclosures -- so you don't have to double up on
stamps. Consider designing and printing invitations and programs
yourself to cut costs. You might opt for cheaper, plain-style wedding
invitations and then embellish them by adding ribbon, lace or silk, or
dried flowers, say experts.
Get gown savvy. Watch the sales, and buy off the rack.
Scout sample sales where you can nab dresses for 25 to 95 percent off
regular prices.
Flower power. Consider using silk flowers, which often
can be cheaper than real ones and can even be reused to decorate your
home. Mix in berries, fruit or greenery fillers to create large
centerpieces or bouquets at lower costs, and use flowers that are
in-season. Try a grocery store's flower department, which might offer
better deals than regular florists. Another way to spruce up your
locale: Borrow plants or trees from friends, or rent them from a
florist.
Affordable photography. Find a photographer who will let
you keep your negatives. That way you can avoid paying high prices for
reprints or enlargements. Hire a capable photography college student,
but evaluate the quality of the student's work first.
Fancying food. Instead of serving lobster and shrimp,
make less expensive foods fancier. Ask the caterer what other affairs'
menus they are preparing on the same day and if you can serve the same
items. Caterers might be able to order and charge for the food at
discounted bulk rates.

Couples Often
Face Difficult Financial Decisions
Once all the decision making with regards to their big day has been put
to rest, couples taking the plunge often must make financial decisions
before or shortly after walking down the aisle. After deciding on
everything from the guest list to music to menus, couples may not be in
the mood to do any more planning once everything has been put in place
for their wedding day. But financial planning is best done as soon as
possible.
Perhaps the best place for you to start when discussing
finances is your respective thoughts toward money. Discussing your
resources and your financial goals is imperative to establishing a
relationship where each of you becomes more responsible or more flexible
with your finances. It's also a good thing to discuss if you'd like to
combine bank accounts, or if you'd just like to continue on with your
own personal accounts. Joint accounts can give you both easy access to
funds, while also increasing the likelihood that you'll avoid fees, as
your joint account will boast a higher balance and earn more interest on
the combined savings.
Keeping your own personal accounts can be beneficial,
too. Along with continuing what has become a comfort level with respect
to your own personal finances, by keeping your own accounts, you're also
maintaining some level of independence as well.
For those couples who have already walked down the
aisle, it is important to consider the tax ramifications of marriage.
While the standard deduction for married couples filing jointly in 2004
($9,700) was equal to the combined deductions of two people filing
separately, filing jointly and itemizing your tax returns could be a
great option for newlyweds, as two people are likely to have more
deductions than just one person filing alone. Keep track of any
deductible expenses, including anything from charitable contributions to
state and local taxes. And if you're among the legions of newlyweds who
have purchased a first home together shortly after getting married, you
can also deduct certain mortgage expenses and your mortgage interest.
It might not be a bad idea, either, to adjust your W-4
form at work to withhold more from your paycheck each week. By
increasing the amount of money withheld from your paycheck, you can
avoid the pitfall of a big tax bill come April 15.
Health insurance is also a decision most newlyweds have
to make once they've officially tied the knot. Since most people are
covered by employer-sponsored plans, combining policies can often be a
less expensive way to go without sacrificing any health benefits.
Typically, one policy that adds a spouse as a dependent is less
expensive than two separate policies with no dependents. For instance,
those who are self-employed and paying for their own policy will most
assuredly find it cheaper to join their spouse's employer-sponsored
plan.
While health insurance is a chief concern, newlyweds
also need to consider whether or not life insurance is an avenue they
want to travel down. Particularly for newlyweds who have recently
purchased a house together, life insurance could be a necessity to
ensure that one spouse can still afford to make the mortgage payments
should the other pass away. If you already have children, life insurance
is a necessity. Also, if either spouse has any pre-existing policies,
they should be updated as soon as possible after the wedding to list the
spouse as a beneficiary.
Examining the things you own is also something couples need to consider,
particularly if you already own a home. If you have expensive jewelry,
for instance, increase your homeowner's insurance to add extra
protection. Also, with respect to auto insurance, oftentimes combining
policies is the most cost-effective way to go. Typically, insurance
companies lower premiums with each car added onto the policy. Many auto
insurance companies also view married couples as safer drivers, which
also leads to lower premiums.
Finally, the last and perhaps most difficult financial
decision to make is whether or not to get a prenuptial agreement. For
many couples, pre-nups are irrelevant. But for couples who already have
substantial assets or children from a previous marriage, a prenup can be
the best way to protect their children and money should they pass away
prematurely or end up divorced.

Professional
Advice: Wedding Day Hairdos and Don'ts
When couples go over their list of priorities for wedding planning,
their appearance probably ranks very highly among other items such as
booking the ceremony, finding a reception site and picking out wedding
bands. While attire that fits your frame and personality can enhance
your best assets, also keep in mind that the right wedding-day hairstyle
is key to completing the look.
For help finding the right style, consult a professional
stylist who has years of experience creating beautiful wedding-day
looks. To get you started, here is some advice from Damian Carney,
international artistic director of hair-product manufacturer Joico, who
offers these dos and don'ts for wedding day style.
DO consider the entire picture, which includes a
style that fits the theme of your wedding and is cohesive with the rest
of your look. When you've come up with a theme -- i.e. classic,
contemporary, casual, etc.-- discuss your plans with your stylist. He or
she can suggest hairstyles that will complement the theme you'd like to
achieve.
DON'T feel you have to emulate everything you see
in bridal magazines. If the look of the moment is free-flowing tresses,
but you prefer a sleek, tight bun, go with what you like. Your stylist
can offer variations, such as escaped tendrils or pins and other
accessories to add distinct appeal.
DO highlight your personality. Although you want
to look radiant and special on your wedding day, don't wear a hairstyle
that isn't "you." In other words, if you're known for your pixie cut,
don't feel the need to grow out your locks just because you'll have more
style possibilities. Similarly, don't fight what nature gave you.
Embrace your ringlet curls, rather than trying to flatten them out for
your wedding. Understandably, you will want to look special on your
wedding day, but take care to ensure that you are recognizable when you
walk down the aisle.
DON'T compete with your gown. The lines and flow
of your gown should be paralleled with the lines of your hairstyle. A
simple, sheath gown works well with a tailored upswept chignon, while a
princess gown with lots of tulle may work better with long, cascading
waves.
DO practice your look prior to your wedding. Set
up a rehearsal with your stylist and finalize your style. Take a photo
so that he or she will have it for reference. This is your big day, so
don't be afraid to voice your opinion and say what works for you and
what doesn't. Ultimately, styling decisions are up to you, so don't feel
pressured to go the way your stylist suggests.
DON'T leave your wedding day hairdo to chance.
The right products, like those from Joico, can help keep your style
looking beautiful throughout the day, with minimal retouching. To give
hair a volume boost, texture and shine, consider AMPLIFIER(R) Volumizing
Mousse that holds without weighing down hair. For dramatic looks and
shine, Gripper Spray Wax allows you to create hair artistry. And to tame
flyaways and frizz while imparting a lustrous shine to hair, rely on
Silk Result Instant Smoother.
DO make sure the groom-to-be takes grooming and
haircare seriously as well. A haircut and style schedule a few weeks
prior to the wedding will ensure his hair is in prime shape for wedding
photo opportunities.

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